“…The most important thing is to master one ‘Waza’ which is best adapted to your physical constitution. Then become self confident enough to believe that you are second to none as far as Budo is concerned”
The statement given as the title to this short article is part of Sensei Kyan’s Maxims on the study and practice of Martial Arts (Budo), the essence of the maxims is that in the world of Bushido there is no room for second best, to be blunt, the second best, is the guy laying in a pool of blood. Kyan maintains that, irrespective of your physical constitution, that one can practice and master one Waza (technique) that is best suited to them, so that should they have to engage in a confrontation, they can enter the battlefield know that they have a fighting chance.
I feel that this philosophy can also be applied in all areas of our life; I have observed so many people get so bent out of shape because they are constantly comparing their lesser attributes to the strengths of the others guy, farther still they enter a field of work that is alien to their constitution
[1] and then wonder why it is that they struggle to live a life of comfort, froth by stress and an overwhelming feeling of the unfairness of life.
Whereas if people would appreciate the wisdom contained in Kyan’s maxims, they would look to study or engage in a Waza
[2] that is aligned to they psyche.
Hence, if Jo Somebody has an average height and enters an endeavour where the taller person is seen as the superstar, subsequently in the field where height is paramount Jo is going to be and will always be second best to Sam Tall. Whereas if Jo has an aptitude for marketing and set about to acquire, horn and sharpen this skill so as to leverage their Marketing IQ, then when they enter the marketing play (fighting) field, they will enter it with the confidence that within this arena they are second to no one.
It is a lot like living your dreams.
[1] Constitution here is used to include mentality, physiology, personality, emotional makeup as well as spiritual beliefs
[2] Waza here is used to include, vocation, study, job, relationship ,or field of specialism